Lessons Learned

 

Last time we skied we left the little one with Grammy. This time we decided we would try to take her along. She is our timid one, she doesn’t like to try new things. She went down the bunny hill a couple of times holding tight to her daddy and then she was done. Her and I went into the lodge and played Leapster for a couple of hours. Near the end of our day she decided she wanted to try one more time.

This time she went down the bunny hill all by herself. We decided we would take her up on the chairlift. She was a little scared as it climbed higher and higher. She was really nervous when we held her hands to get off at the top. She held on tight to her daddy’s hand and they took off down the hill. She screamed the whole way down. When they got to the bottom, she wanted to do it again.

It felt like a milestone today. The baby isn’t a baby anymore. She is starting to be able to do everything her big sisters can do. It was a happy/sad kind of moment. It isn’t easy to think that my baby is growing up, but it was a great day.

Another week full of moments of gratitude.

#311 4 days teaching in 4 different classrooms

#312 Hubby vacation days with nothing to do but spend time together

#313 Working out with the track team (and kind of being able to keep up 16 years later)

#314 Overcoming my fear of the chair lift

#315 Spending the day in the snow with friends

#316 Loving on adorable twin baby girls

#317 An evening away with my mom and sister

#318 Sunday night early bedtime

#319 Finishing a 700+ page book with my oldest

#320 Grandpa helping out with the girls

I never know what a new week will bring. But I am grateful for all the memories that happen during when I least expect it. The list gets longer, the memories grow fonder and my heart is overflowing with joy and love.

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Sisterly Love

My girls can fight like cats and dogs, but when they get along, it absolutely melts my heart. We have spent a lot of time indoors this winter so they have spent a lot of time together. When I see sites like this one, I have to take a picture. I have to remember it because unfortunately winter isn’t over. . .

My list continues:

#301 A week at home to get my house in order.

#302 Spending time in the weight room with my hubby.

#303 Spending the weekend with old friends

#304 Three teenage boys as overnight guests, since we will only have teenage girls in this house

#305 Feeding three teenage boys breakfast, a little glimpse of what it would be like to feed boys everyday

#306 Mexican food, worth the miles I had to run to eat it

#307 God keeping us safe on treacherous roads

#308 Family to take us in when it wasn’t safe to drive home

#309 40 degree weather, yes, that is glorious in South Dakota in March

#310 Track Season, excited to be back to help coach a few Bulldogs on the track I ran on 16 years ago

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Thankful for Monday

Before I crawl out of bed on a Monday morning I take a deep breath. Every morning gets a little crazy around here getting kids off to school, but Monday can be extra trying.

No one really wants to roll out of bed after a fun weekend. We are scrambling to find hats and gloves. And then they are off and I can breathe.

Even though it gets a little crazy, as soon as everyone is where they are supposed to be I am thankful for Mondays. I was greeted this morning with three e-mails from dear friends filled with encouragement, wisdom and prayer. Time spent in Romans 8 encouraged me with a scripture to take with me through the week.

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39

#291 Extra special time spent with my husband

#292 Coffee with an old friend

#293 Four busy days of work

#294 Celebrating Dr. Seuss birthday and Read Across America

#295 Getting to the gym 6 days last week

#296 New Cookbooks

#297 Finished Projects

#298 Made from Scratch Chocolate Cake

#299 Sleepovers hosted by other mom’s :-)

#300 Prayers from Friends

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Time Spent with Him

This morning before I even rolled out of bed I knew that today was going to be a busy day. Get two off to school and one off to work. Get one ready to spend the morning with Grandma and the afternoon at school. Prepare myself to spend the day with Middle School kids.

I made my way to my coffee maker. After I hit the start button, and then, I made my way to this.

These two books are always out. I don’t ever seem to get them put away. They are one of the first things I see in the morning and they draw me in. This morning it was still a little quiet in the house while I settled in and read in Luke the story of Mary and Martha. One I love, one I struggle with.

Then I turn the pages in Utmost until I find March 2. Jesus asking Peter, Do you love me? Not once, but three times. Oswald Chambers talks about when we will come to a point when we love Him more than words can ever say.

I don’t hear the noises of the girls starting to get ready for school, or the news on the tv in the kitchen. Instead I stop and wonder, Do I love Him that much? I know I want to, but do I?

I know that every time I pick up my Bible to read, every time I pause to praise Him or have a conversation with Him, every time I remember my blessings, I love Him more deeply. I understand His love for me more clearly.

I am a few days behind, but I am taking the time to read my Bible from cover to cover in 90 days. I am discovering stories I have never heard. I am reading scripture that is being written on my heart. I have never taken the time before now to read this book in its entirety. I decided that now it is time.

Not one of us has more minutes in the day than another. Yet we all decide how we use those minutes. So thankful that I have the opportunity to start my morning minutes with Him.

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This is the Day

This is the day
That the lord has made
We will rejoice
And be glad in it

I woke up this morning and this song keeps running through my mind. No the snow has not melted, but the sun is shining. It should get into the 20′s today. That is a blessing. I am sure that the sun being out is a reason to rejoice, but I am realizing that…

I need to learn to rejoice in the days that the sun isn’t out.

I need to learn to rejoice in the days when the skies are gray.

I need to learn to rejoice in the days that life just isn’t going the way that I had it planned.

Adding to my list always helps me to remember all the reasons I have to rejoice. It reminds of the many things that I take for granted. It reminds me that the little things in life are not little things.

#281 The Coach that really cares about the girls on his team, not just about the win

#282 The daughter that is passionate about the game but handles losing with grace

#283 Ending the season with a win

#284 A girl that loves to create

#285 A girl that loves to give her creations away to everyone she loves

#286 Seeing my girls on stage sitting at a Grand Piano making music

#287 Beautiful music from talented kids

#288 Making time for the gym

#289 Sitting at the table hand-stitching with my mom

#290 Saying yes to a sleepover (knowing that we can catch up on sleep later)

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The Gift of Time

I am sitting at my dining room table. I look around the room and realize that there is no clock in this room. Maybe that is why I enjoy being in this room.

It seems lately that I can be so bound by time.

Not waking up before my kids for my quiet time.

Trying to run faster on the treadmill than I did the day before.

Letting the time slip away and forgetting to get supper in the oven.

Busy schedules that do not allow enough family time.

I can avoid looking at my watch, but time continues.

My husband teases me about my lists and my schedules. He says If you would just Do instead of planning to do, you would get a lot more done.

I laugh at the truth to his statement. How much time have I let slip away?

The time spent reading books for fun instead of the Bible.

The time spent worrying about what is going to happen instead of praying for peace and God’s will.

The time spent writing about our lives instead of living our lives.

The time spent receiving praise instead of praising Him.

I am in control of how I spend my time. I can choose to wait until tomorrow or I can choose to give God everything today. He will wait for me, but why am I making him wait?

Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving. Colossians 2:6-7

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Master Gardener

This was the view from my office window yesterday.

We just had beautiful weather that melted a lot of this snow. God opened His storehouses again and we have a new blanket covering the ground. It really is beautiful right now, from inside the house.

None of it is disturbed. No animals have even ventured across it. It looks like an empty canvas. Waiting for children to play in it. The rabbit that is taking shelter in our backyard to hop through it.

Buried in my backyard is my garden. Last summer it was full of flowers. We moved in late in the summer so we were able to enjoy the work of a different gardener. This summer I hope to fill it with vegetables.

But right now, it is hibernating under two feet of snow. Slumbering until the sun is powerful enough to uncover it.

I have been thinking a lot about gardening lately. Not just because of the seed magazines that have arrived in my mailbox. My main focus on gardening came from this verse,

James 1:21 in KJV:

Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.

The word engrafted is speaking to me for some reason. I think because I think of the grafting of plants. Gardeners can strip away weakness in a plant and graft a stronger plant to it so it is hardier and it can withstand the elements.

I really need God to do that in my life and I know that the more time I spend in the His Word and in prayer, He is grafting His Word to my being and making me stronger.

I went to the Message last after I pondered engrafting:

So throw all spoiled virtue and cancerous evil in the garbage. In simple humility, let our gardener, God, landscape you with the Word, making a salvation-garden of your life.

The Master Gardener knows my weaknesses.

His Word in my life gives me the strength that I need to continue to grow.

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Sunshine to Storm

We woke up Sunday morning to another South Dakota Blizzard. I have lived in South Dakota my whole life, so this is nothing new. We get teased by a week of beautiful weather and then winter strikes again.

My little one and I took advantage of the sun and warmer temps early in the week and went for a walk.

When we returned from our walk she sat down to draw pictures of her observations in a notebook. First she drew three birds. I told her that I didn’t think we would see any yet. She spotted some and made sure she told me, “See Mom, I told you we would see some birds.”

Her second observation was a stop sign?? She asked me to draw and octagon for her in her book. I asked her why an octagon. She looked at me like I didn’t know anything at all and told me, “So I can draw the Stop Sign.”

Our walk didn’t take us very far, just a couple of blocks to Grammy and Grandpa’s house. Soon, the weather will change again and we can walk a little farther to the library and the park. We are both really looking forward to warmer weather.

Even in the middle of a blizzard, I can smile as I continue my list:

#271 A week of sunshine

#272 Many loads of laundry clean, folded and almost all put away

#273 New recipes that turn out delicious

#274 An afternoon alone with my middle girl

#275 Evening out with friends

#276 2 Carloads of kids headed to the pool and the gym

#277 Watching the snow fall outside, staying warm inside

#278 Praying with my husband

#279 Seeing my daughter so captivated by a book that she doesn’t want to put it down

#280 Family Mealtimes

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Words of Love

My list is coming a little late this week. Not because I am lacking gifts to add to my gratitude list, just enjoying Valentine’s Day with my family. I love Valentine’s Day. A day all about Love. I know the argument of showing that Love everyday. . . which is important, but I still love that their is a holiday to focus on it.

It was not a day filled with Candy and Flowers. Instead I was greeted in the morning with his words.

“It has been a growing 11 years in our marriage and our faith. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you!”

Words to me are a beautiful gift.

They never fade.

They never die.

I cherish them.

#261 A Week of Love Notes

#262 Making Valentine’s Boxes with my girls

#263 Spending a day teaching Music

#264 Snow Melting

#265 Sun Shining

#266 Playing Heart BINGO with a class full of 2nd graders

#267 Celebrating my nephew’s 17th Birthday

#268 Listening to my niece sing a solo (I had never heard her sing and she is amazing)

#269 Running 2 miles without dying

#270 Realizing I don’t need to look for Joy. I have already found it in Him.

But as for me, I will always have hope; I will praise you more and more. Psalm 71:14

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My Sunday Prayer

The law of the LORD is perfect, reviving the soul;
the testimony of the LORD is sure,
making wise the simple;
the precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart;
the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes;
the fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever;
the rules of the LORD are true, and righteous altogether.
More to be desired are they than gold,even much fine gold;
sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb.
Moreover, by them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward.

Who can discern his errors?

Declare me innocent from hidden faults.
Keep back your servant also from presumptuous sins;
let them not have dominion over me!
Then I shall be blameless,
and innocent of great transgression.

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart
be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.

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